Posts Tagged Dying

Have You Ever Felt This Way About A Loved One Dying?

My mom is in bad health right now, she has had stroke after stroke. Just to make a long story short, a week ago she had a really bad one. Now she has to have total care 24-7. She can barely feed herself, she told me the other night that she wanted to get right with God. She said she was tired of fighting. I told her it is o.k. and I understand. I was not sure what to say. I can not even imagine what must be going through her mind having to depend on people for your personal needs. Have you ever prayed that God would release your loved one from their pain so they can move to the next life? I feel guilty for feeling this way, but now she is beyond recovery, and she is too far gone for physical therapy. She cannot even sit up on her own. Right side is paralyzed. Is it normal to feel like this?

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Why Cant I Seem To Cry Over My Mom Dying?

My mom who just turned 74 a few weeks ago died wednesday afternoon and of course i am devasted and heartbroken over this cause i loved her so much and was close with her and have cried a little but hardly any and i dont understand why…She had empysema and hasnt been in the best of health lately…She had been in and out of the hospital a few times in the past couple of months and was in a nursing home/rehab center getting physical therapy for 6 weeks cause she had been in the hospital for week with pneumonis and needed physical therapy to get stronger and went back in the hospital for a few days after that and she had been home for about 3 weeks and then on april 1st she went back in the hospital again cause she was really sick and weak again and on wednesday afternoon she died of respitory failure…I had a feeling she wasnt gonna make it and like i said i have cried a little but not that much..Visitiation was tonight at the funeral home and tomorrow and on saturday she will be

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