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Should I Get This Procedure Done Without My Husband Knowing? Lumineers?

So I recently went back to the dentist for the first time in a long time, and as I figured, I have a lot of work to be done.
I need a root canal, two crowns, a filling, and a jaw surgery/physical therapy because of my bite being really messed up and causing me to have migraines. I’m really excited that after 12 years of headaches I have a cause for it all, and can have it corrected. I have an infection in my jaw, which I am finishing up antibiotics for now. I have an appointment on Friday to get the root canal done. That’s going to cost us $1200, since it is so far gone, and has been broken for about 4 years now.
I also have crooked teeth, and have been planning to get Lumineers, and I have already gotten 2 consultations and I am a good candidate for them. My dentist is a cosmetic dentist who also does general dentistry, and since I am having a few thousand in other work done, he offered me 2 free Lumineers to have the procedure done. My issue is that either way, I have to get the work financed–and it needs to be done, or I will end up with an even worse infection than I already have, and be in so much pain, again.
Now here’s where the tricky part comes in. My husband is in the Marine Corps, and he is currently deployed. I got to talk to him for a few minutes, and told him about the root canal, but the phone was cut off before I was able to tell him about the rest. I told him it was a few thousand and it would be financed in our names. He said to make sure what the payment would be and that we could afford it. I’m just going back and forth with it because I did not get the chance to tell him about the Lumineers… But if I do the rest now and the Lumineers later, I won’t get the 2 free ones, plus I will have to have 2 loans financed for it, instead of all at one shot, so it will be 2 payments, and about 2400$ more. We can afford the payments, as he just got a promotion and military’s yearly pay and BAH raise, and I also work for a pharmacy.
I really want to surprise him with having my teeth done and them be all pretty when I finally get to see him again in March. But I’m not sure if that’s the right thing to do. I only have until Friday to finance it, and I’m not sure when I will be able to talk to him again. I can’t reschedule the appointment because of the infection.. It has to be done the day I finish antibiotics, otherwise I’ll have to keep getting more antibiotics, and that’s not so good for you.
So I’m stuck. I don’t want to make him upset.. And I do plan to pay it out of my own paycheck, it will just be jointly financed in both our names (like our cars are)…. And I really want to surprise him and get it done. And I want it done for myself. It’s been forever that I wanted nice teeth and my family never had the money, plus my parents were meth heads. Any advice?? I’m so torn!

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Have You Ever Felt This Way About A Loved One Dying?

My mom is in bad health right now, she has had stroke after stroke. Just to make a long story short, a week ago she had a really bad one. Now she has to have total care 24-7. She can barely feed herself, she told me the other night that she wanted to get right with God. She said she was tired of fighting. I told her it is o.k. and I understand. I was not sure what to say. I can not even imagine what must be going through her mind having to depend on people for your personal needs. Have you ever prayed that God would release your loved one from their pain so they can move to the next life? I feel guilty for feeling this way, but now she is beyond recovery, and she is too far gone for physical therapy. She cannot even sit up on her own. Right side is paralyzed. Is it normal to feel like this?

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Did This Make My Mom’s Lungs Worse?

My mom who was 74 died last wednesday..She had empysema for about 10 yrs and for the last 6 yrs she had been on oxygen 24/7….She had been sick on and off since january and had been in the hospital in january for a week with pneumonia and then in a nursing home/rehab center for 6 weeks for physical therapy to get stronger so she could come home…She had been home for about 3 weeks when she went back in the hospital on april 1 cause she was sick again and week and could not eat…They took tests and found out that everything she ate and drank was going to her lungs..When she was in rehab she was getting her food soften in a food processer to make it easier for her to eat cause for months everytime she would eat she would start coughing…When she got home my sister who had always lived with her along with my brother in-law and my sisters daughter who also live there they would also put her food in a food processer…2 days before my mom died they put a feeding tube in her…

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Did This Make My Mom’s Lungs Worse?

My mom who was 74 died last wednesday..She had empysema for about 10 yrs and for the last 6 yrs she had been on oxygen 24/7….She had been sick on and off since january and had been in the hospital in january for a week with pneumonia and then in a nursing home/rehab center for 6 weeks for physical therapy to get stronger so she could come home…She had been home for about 3 weeks when she went back in the hospital on april 1 cause she was sick again and week and could not eat…They took tests and found out that everything she ate and drank was going to her lungs..When she was in rehab she was getting her food soften in a food processer to make it easier for her to eat cause for months everytime she would eat she would start coughing…When she got home my sister who had always lived with her along with my brother in-law and my sisters daughter who also live there they would also put her food in a food processer…2 days before my mom died they put a feeding tube in her…

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How Do I Stop This Really Bad Pain ?

well my mom doesnt have insurance and we cant aford for her to cousult a doctor so i went to the doctor and faked pain so i can get her medicine for her pain
i said that i had pian when really it was her..lol
she has pian from her lower back down to her knee from her left leg
i didnt get any medicine i have to get an exray..lol and get physical therapy…lol thats wat i get for trying to help my mom….
well ne who does any one have anything that can help me help her stop her pain i believe its called sciatic nerve the part that shes hurting
help me and her please i would really apreacitate it verry much thank you

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Married Women, What You You Do If You Caught Your Husband Doing This?

Your husband is a physical therapist and is contracted out to work in a business where his job is to rehab patients. One day you show up at his job to take him out for lunch and you walk into his office and he’s giving a younger girl a massage and has his hands inside of her pants rubbing her lower back and hips. This girl is an employee not a rehab patient. Then you overhear talk from other people that he works with that there may be a sexual harrasment suit filed against him because he has a problem keeping his hands to himself. What would you say to him, what would your reaction be? Please, serious replies only.

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Physical Therapy Assistant Degrees. Is It Worth It To Go Back To School And Get This Degree?

I already have a BA in the Fine arts and graduated in 2008. i had a short run in graphic design and then got laid off and couldn’t find a job. Would it be worth it to go back to school and get an associates degree in physical therapy assistant?

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Leg Numbness & Pain For 4 Months. What Could This Be?

Okay, l was pregnant when this all began, I asked my OB/GYN when I first noticed it in November . It looked like a bruise about the size of a quarter above my right knee, it also looked raised. I told him my leg was numb around that area, and that if I walked a lot my whole leg would go numb and tingle.He told me it was a busted blood vessel and that I had extra fluid putting pressure on it bc I was pregnant, and that it would go away after the baby was born. He sent me to physical therapy for my back & this but it didn’t seem to help.
Well it’s been about a month since I had my baby and I still have the spot,still looks inflamed & numb.
The numbness when I walk has gotten better but I still have numbness around the spot and like a dull aching pain almost all the time. My toes sometimes go numb and get cold. I have an appointment with a neurologist, but I really don’t know who I need to see, this was who my Dr suggested if the problem didn’t get better. Would love some input. Thanks

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How To Stop This Pain From Patella Femoral Syndrome?

I have had patella femoral syndrom in both my knees for about 4 years now. I am an active and competative dancer and no i can’t take it easy and i will never stop dancing. I wear knee braces whenever i dance and i have gone to physical therapy for about 8 weeks and the tracking of my patella has greatly improved it still rotates a little bit outward but it is alot better and my therapist said my knee control is ten times better. But the pain has barely gone away! I have done the RICE meathod millions of times and while the ice helps for a little bit it is short lived. Is it possible this is not PFS? Do i need surgery? My therapist said there’s not much more he can do…..how can i stop this terrible pain!!!!!!
P.S. I also have been off dance all this week and will be all of next
P.S.S I am a 14 year old female

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Ok.. Trying This Again Yahoo Ate Half My Question… 12 Weeks Pregnant, Uncontrollable Hip Pain?

Ok so… Since becoming pregnant, technically my 4th pregnancy, but I’ve had 2 miscarries so this will be baby number 2. My hips have widened and my joints seem to have decided to loosen up like they did early on in my pregnancy with my son.
My one hip (left one) keeps going out of place, I have had the chiropractor put it back into place twice already and it is out for the third time. My OB is aware of the pain it’s causing me, and prescribed me some pain meds that should take off the edge of the pain.
I took one about 30 minutes ago, and normally it will start helping within 10-20. I’m feeling absolutely no relief and the pain is making me sick.
Any suggestions on how to help this pain? I’ve tried heating pads, warm baths, massage, none of it is working tonight.
Should I call “Ask a Nurse” and see what they suggest, or just try to ride it out til Monday when I start physical therapy?
**Honest opinions here please, and I don’t need anyone getting on me about taking the pain medication my OB prescribed**

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